Financial Unity in Marriage - Becoming one Flesh with your Finances (Genesis 2:23-24)
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Today, I want to dive into one of the most foundational scriptures about marriage and relate it to money—Genesis 2:24. This verse isn’t just about spiritual connection or emotional intimacy. It also has something to say about how we manage our finances (and every other area of our lives) as a team.
What Does Genesis 2:24 Say About Marriage?
The scripture says, "For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." This verse speaks to the deep, covenantal bond between husband and wife. It’s a bond that touches every area of life—spiritual, emotional, physical, and yes - even financial.
Most of us hear “one flesh” and think about physical intimacy, but what if we thought about it in broader terms that captured our decisions with money? Today, I want to show you how becoming one financially can honor God and strengthen your marriage.
Unity in All Areas, Including Finances
In marriage, God calls us to unity in every area of life. But let’s be real—money can often be a point of stress and tension between spouses. Financial issues are one of the top reasons couples argue and divorce. But when we see our finances through the lens of “one flesh,” things change.
Becoming one financially means moving from a mindset of “my money” and “your money” to “our money.” It’s about recognizing that no matter who earns more or handles the day-to-day finances, all the resources go into the same pot. And that can be a game-changer for how you manage money in your relationship.
Aligning Finances to Honor God
When we align our finances, we create the opportunity to manage our money in a God-honoring way. Jesus said in Matthew 6:21, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” If our hearts are truly united in marriage, shouldn’t our financial goals, values, and spending reflect that too?
This means sitting down together and discussing your goals, dreams, and priorities. Whether you’re saving for a home, paying off debt, or planning to give generously, it’s about making these decisions together—and seeking God’s wisdom at every step.
Stewardship is a Team Effort
As Christians, we’re called to be good stewards of the resources God gives us. In Luke 16:11, Jesus says, “If you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?” This reminds us that earthly wealth is just a glimpse of what’s to come. But how we handle it now, matters.
Stewardship isn’t just an individual responsibility—it’s something you do together as a couple. It’s about supporting each other, your family, and God’s kingdom. And when you work together to manage what you’ve been given, you’ll find that it draws you closer, not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually too.
Trusting God as a Couple
When we trust God with our finances and work as a team, we’re building a stronger, more unified relationship. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” When couples align their finances and put their trust in God, He promises to guide them in every decision.
Ready to Strengthen Your Marriage and Your Finances?
You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Whether you’re just starting as a married couple or you’ve been together for years, aligning your finances can feel challenging. But it’s also incredibly rewarding. If you’re ready to take this next step together, I’d love to walk alongside you as a partner in this journey.
Feel free to reach out, and let’s build a financial plan that not only reflects your goals but also strengthens your relationship and honors God.
Let’s Connect
How do you and your spouse manage your finances together? I’d love to hear your thoughts! And if you’re looking for more guidance, don’t hesitate to reach out for a consultation. Let’s build marriages that honor God in every area, including our finances.
